Rollerskating Culture’s Potential for Promotion

Last year, a webmaster asked what the next big thing is. Reading the tea leaves, I said, community on the cheap.

Covid did some serious damage to American social structures. We already had generations isolating behind their cell phones and gaming computers, but sheltering in place made that isolation a matter of public health.

As vaccination became the norm and doors opened, there’s been additional barriers to socializing in person. The inflation of real estate also increased the price of just going out. Just seeing a movie and meeting friends for dinner became a big deal. We’re also seeing our first generations that got cynical watching their parents & family get drunk and instead prefer to get stoned, or just stay sober, making bars, breweries and night club experiences less attractive.

And I’m hearing the question on Reddit, where can I go that doesn’t involve getting wasted, but still have fun while meeting peeps? I too found myself asking that question.

And something really curious popped up, Skate Oddity, a goth themed roller skating night at an open air skate park that recently popped up in Burbank. At $23, it wasn’t the cheapest option, but it was definitely something different.

Skate Oddity draws great crowds, especially for an activity that’s best enjoyed sober. Yet, like an intoxicant, it leaves you wanting more.

So I began researching some LA rollerskate culture for clients. I went from rental skates to pulling my skates out of the garage and learning how easy it was to swap the bearings. I went from just skating in circles to learning to skate backwards, and pick up moves I saw others doing. Over the summer of 2025, I’d pop into the park for cheaper skate nights. As winter came, I drove out to Glendale for indoor skating at my nearest roller rink. Thanks to Reddit, I’ve learned how to change stuff like bearings, trucks, and recognize the good stuff for getting your skate on.

So it’s safe to say I’m happily addicted. But what about the original point, community on the cheap. Is this a real thing, and does roller skating apply?

Mileage varies when you come down to price. A night at Moonlight Rollerway in Glendale is going to cost you about two hours worth of California minimum wage, or the equivalent of about five gallons of gas. Not include the price to drive out, there’s the entry fee, skate rentals, and don’t forget the snack bar. Same goes for events like Skate Oddity, which also include a vendor area and food.

Roller skates aren’t cheap either. That pair I pulled from the garage cost over $300, in 2003, half. what they’d cost now. There are budget options, at around $150, but they might not last long. And cheap skates? Well, there’s a reason that’s an insult. Let’s just say there’s a brand that’s synonymous for grief and failure, named after a city in Illinois.

But once you’re past the price of skates, there’s an advantage. On Fourth of July, I was skating at the park under the stars, watching fireworks, for only $9. In December, I got my first set of outdoor wheels as a Christmas present, and they light up! This means I can practice in my own driveway.

And last night, I went to my first community event at a Community College in North Hollywood. There was no charge. Organizers brought out some party lights and a boom box. There’s also local street skating groups that coordinate with bicycle clubs for night rides.

Overall, there’s been a great opportunity to meet people and make local friends for little expense. Bonus, while there’s a risk of a banged knee or bruised wrist, there’s no intoxicants or risk of roofies. Which makes skate nights much safer than crashing a rave, yet just as physically intense.

What are these communities like? Most are over 30, with a significant portion over 40. Most nights at Moonlight and the Burbank skate park are all ages. I seriously doubt the street skate groups or night skating community groups would turn down teens or kids, but given these are night events, typically going until about 10pm, we’re not seeing much of them.

About half or more of the crowds I’m seeing are women, with family park nights, I’ll see moms out there skating with their kids. There’s also a serious gender-queer & LGBTQ contingent (myself included). Skate Oddity is very TG & enby friendly, Moonlight even has drag nights.

In terms of selling to these adults, I’m doubting an adult company like a cam site is going to have much opportunity. There may be opportunity for recruitment of adults though, especially on the LGBTQ side. However, no one likes to be exploited, and something very serious I’ve noticed are politics are held close to the chest. There may be a few “Fuck ICE” t-shirts, but given much of the crowds tend to be over 40, it doesn’t mean the majority is political in either direction.

Part of what this is about is getting away from politics, and worries about things like bills and work.

The grown ups however, may be more receptive to see skating themes in the smut, and it’s happened many times before. Having skating as an option at an adults only event has a lot of potential.

What I do see an opportunity for might be pleasure products, and adult events. But this has to be done carefully. Guests of an event like Skate Oddity or even LGBTQ night at Moonlight might be open to something like DomCon, but it would have to be done tastefully, and with an inclusive vibe. Marketing a pleasure products store would likewise require something tasteful, discrete, with more innuendo than product images.

On the other hand, if a major adult retailer like Adam and Eve, or Castle Megastores offered a portion of their store parking lot to an adult community skate night, that could go far.

Worth noting, these activities are best done clean and sober, but there’s nothing held back about intoxicants after skating. These adults do appear open to CBD, 420 related products, and of course a refreshing beer or margarita. However, the venues may have very serious issues about sponsors related to intoxicants.

And lets not forget a critical component of the experience, the music! These community activities have been as much about music as the skating. The themes may vary from Goth, to hip hip, to even country, but the sound is essential to the skating. So those promoting music events or bands should keep skate groups and events in mind.

What about mainstream? Remember, skaters are doing this to get away from adulting. If you’re including skate themes in advertising and promotions, that’s one thing. But there’s an awareness in these groups, and while some may lean conservative, that doesn’t mean they’ll accept corporate pandering. They’re more likely to lean positive towards a local burger joint than a fast food empire.

For the standards of High Octane Heart Media and PR, does skating amplify experience? Hell yes it does. While skating starts as something for kids, there are significant thrills and risks. The adrenaline is very real and personally, it’s the first time in years I’ve felt such a freedom and so alive. Like with BDSM and fetish, there’s risk, there’s excitement, and a metric ton of expression. In the future, I’d also be open to a skating related client, and I’m very curious about roller derby.

Is this the next big thing? Maybe. Visiting a skate park or rink might be on par with a night at the movies, something quick and fun that still costs more than staying home and playing video games. But after the initial expense of a solid pair of skates, which can be less expensive than a new bicycle, there’s opportunities to get out there, make new friends, express yourself, and have fun.

Is this a major promotional opportunity? Community rollers skating is still in the counter culture fringes, so there are opportunities there. But like with any counter culture, tread carefully and respect the peeps.

DomCon Los Angeles Returns in May of 2026

Los Angeles, CA — DomCon Los Angeles, the premier professional and lifestyle Domination convention, is coming to the Hilton LAX, 5711 West Century Blvd, 90045, May 27-31, 2026.

Sponsored by Bad Dragon, and Torture Garden, DomCon Los Angeles bridges lifestyle and professional BDSM. The world’s best Dominatrixes, fetish supermodels, content creators, photographers, kinky educators, and leather icons come together from around the world for this sensational fetish fair.

The show welcomes those new and curious to the scene all the way to seasoned experts looking to expand their knowledge and ideas for sexual adventure.

DomCon begins with their business to business side, with workshops covering legal issues, medical safety, financial wellbeing, revenue streams, and new techniques for the dungeon. At the end of the week, the convention opens to the kinky adult public with energetic socials, kinky classes, live performances, a shopping area with hand crafted BDSM gear and fetish couture, plus the show is well known for their scandalous parties.

“This year, we’re adding the first annual DomCon Community Choice Awards, to be held during the red carpet opening ceremonies, Thursday night, May 28th,” said DomCon Founder and President, Mistress Cyan. “This is a new honor created to celebrate the voices, talent and impact of our community. These awards recognize the individuals who have made a meaningful difference through their work, leadership and visibility.”

The deadline for presenting classes or workshops at DomCon Los Angeles is March 1, 2026. To find out more, go to https://domcon.com/home/custom?page=Presenters.

Exhibitor space has already sold out. Advertising and sponsorship opportunities are available by contacting Mistress Mia Darque at advertising@domcon.com.

This event is for 18 and over adults only. Registration info, VIP packages, volunteer information, press contacts, internet membership, the DomCon app, and much more can be found at https://DomCon.com.

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Mistress Cyan Presents The Lair, The AVN Fetish Afterparty

Las Vegas, NV — Friday evening, January 23rd, BDSM legend Mistress Cyan presents The Lair Fetish Party, the official 2026 AVN Show afterparty, at “The Usual Place,” 100 S. Maryland Parkway, Suite 110 in Las Vegas.

The Lair offers stage performances by Dominatrixes, bondage artists, and fetish models. For couples who want to bring their toy bags, Mistress Cyan will have dungeon equipment and BDSM zones for play. In addition DJ Scythe will be on the turntables, providing electrifying music for guests to dance and get kinky.

Oklahoma Amazon, Mistress Mia Darque will be the MC for the evening. Scheduled to perform at The Lair are Cervena Fox, Electrogirly, Miss Apricot Pitts, The Commandant, Queen Mary, Spunky, Master Joshua and Orpheus Black. Blazing across the stage that night will be models from Liquid Red design with a scorching hot fetish fashion show.

“Don’t miss out on the kinkiest party of the AVN Show!” advised Mistress Cyan. “Step past inhibition and embrace intimate adventure. Plunge into deep desires and devour the night for an unforgettable experience.”

For a taste of what to expect at The Lair, Mistress Cyan will have a booth for her legendary dungeon, Sanctuary Studios on the AVN Adult Entertainment Expo convention floor at The Virgin hotel and casino in Las Vegas. Joining Cyan will be Dominatrixes and submissives from her famous house of kink and special guests.

This event is 21 and over only. Dress to thrill, as the dress code calls for fetish wear, leather latex, lingerie, formal, or all-black attire. No casual wear will be permitted.

Tickets for The Lair are limited. Online ticket information and additional event details are available at
https://www.sanctuarylax.com/events/82643.

Go to https://www.AVNShow.com for tickets to the AVN Adult Entertainment Expo.

Brittany Wilson of The Dungeon Store Nominated for XBIZ Executive Award

Los Angeles, CA – Brittany Wilson, Sales and Marketing Director for The Dungeon Store, was recently nominated for Marketing Executive of the Year for the upcoming 2026 Xbiz Exec Awards. The awards are to be presented as part of the annual XBIZ Honors ceremony in conjunction with the XBIZ Expo pleasure products trade show.

The 2026 XBIZ Exec Awards honor the best of the best from the adult industry for outstanding creativity and leadership, across a diverse range of prominent industry roles.

Wilson has been with The Dungeon Store for over 10 years. The business is woman-owned, intergenerational family enterprise. Wilson and her team pride themselves on over two decades of curating collections of fine BDSM gear and fetish toys with an eye towards community care and development. Many of the products offered by The Dungeon Store are hand crafted by fetish professionals across the United States. The company does both distribution and retail sales at American events coast to coast.

“This is a huge honor. I am very grateful to everyone over at XBIZ for the recognition,” said Wilson. “My Mom, who started The Dungeon Store is very proud. This is a great moment for all of us at our shop and it makes all the travel, one on one relations with associates and customers, along with literal heavy lifting feel like it’s becoming part of something much larger than we anticipated. Thank you so much!”

Wilson will be at Naughty Noel in Gettysburg, December 4-6, debuting The Dungeon Store’s latest creations for violet wands, along with additional electro play gear, paddles, floggers, whips, restraints, plus occult books and tarot cards.

For a look at The Dungeon Store’s curated collection of BDSM toys, go to www.TheDungeonStore.com.

For more on the 2026 XBIZ Awards for the retail industry, go to https://www.xbiz.com/news/293284/2026-xbiz-exec-awards-nominees-for-retail-industry-announced

 

DomCon Ready to Rock New Orleans, Oct 22 – 26

New Orleans, LA – DomCon New Orleans has named their Guests of Honor, released their class schedule and announced collaborations with Hard Rock Cafe, Hustler Hollywood and Club Fétiche.

DomCon NOLA, the premier Professional and Lifestyle Domination convention brings together Dominatrixes, fetish supermodels, sex educators, content creators and BDSM enthusiasts from around the world to the Astor Crowne Plaza Hotel, 739 Canal Street, October 22 – 26.

“We are so excited for our NOLA 2025 show!” said Mistress Cyan. “Wednesday night, after our adult industry classes, we have a meet up at the Hustler Hollywood store across Bourbon Street. Then, from 9 to 11 that night, we have a social at the Hard Rock Cafe a couple doors down. The Hard Rock is offering discounts that night on food, drinks, and the gift shop to DomCon guests. Thursday night we have a big after party at Club Fétiche and DomCon guests should bring their toybags for play through the club.”

Guests of Honor for this year are MsAriel, Miss Chris, Mistress Ella Strictland, and MsDDom.

Classes include Corsetry and Waist Training by Dark Garden corsets, Scent Training and Pheromones with Mistress Ultra Violet, Dominance in Color with Mistress Mia Darque and The Commandant, The Art of Glam by Lady Sheba, and The Newby Frenzy: Finding Your Way by Goddess Aroya Lessons.

Last year, DomCon New Orleans had over 700 guests attending for great classes, workshops, kinky shopping, the DomCon official second line parade, a variety of socials and of course electrifying fetish parties.

Sponsors this year include Bad Dragon, JustFor.Fans, AVN, Catieosaurus.com, Kasidie.com, Spunk Lube, Legally Bound Law Group, Voyr.com, Seattle Fetish Ball, The Stockroom, SouthEast LeatherFest, The Dungeon Store, Mistress Leanne, Mz Emily, Mistrixx J and Torture Garden Los Angeles.

Online registration closes on October 13. Tickets will be available at the hotel starting October 21. Go to https://DomCon.com to register and find additional event information.

Brittany Wilson of The Dungeon Store Interviewed on ToyChats

Baltimore, MD — Brittany Wilson, Sales and Marketing Director of The Dungeon Store was interviewed recently by Ralph Greco of ToyChats. They discussed the history of the store, the nature of selling at shows, trends in the pleasure products business and the latest violet wand toy from The Dungeon Store, Badger Blades.

“Badger Blades are our take on a big conductive talon,” Wilson explained. “They’re designed to look like big, badass blades protruding from your knuckles. So, you’d line the “blade” part between your fingers, wrapping your fingers around the base for control. They’re very eye-catching.”

The Dungeon Store is a woman-owned, intergenerational family business, priding themselves on over two decades of curating collections of fine BDSM and fetish toys with an eye towards community care and development. They carry a wide variety of products, with a special emphasis on violet wands and other electro-fetish items. Many of the products offered by The Dungeon Store are hand crafted by fetish professionals across the United States.

“Every region is completely different and looks for different things,” noted Wilson when asked about selling at events across the U.S., such as TES Fest in New Jersey or Surrender in California. “This is especially influenced if someone in an area is an expert on something. So, like, in New England and the Bay Area, you have a lot of rope experts. So, those regions are exposed to Shibari more often and have a higher-than-average interest in rope.”

ToyChats Media Inc is an open, honest, and inclusive platform for sex toy reviews and conversation. ToyChats offers a safe, user-powered space where people can share real experiences, explore sexual wellness, and connect with a like-minded community.

The Dungeon Store is currently offering a clearance sale on Tens Unit accessories, and shoppers can find their latest additions at https://TheDungeonStore.com. The ToyChats interview is live at https://www.toychats.com/blogs/talking-with-brittany-wilson-sales-and-marketing-director-for-the-dungeon-store-1664.

The Dungeon Store Debuts Badger Blades for Electro Play

 

Baltimore, MD — The Dungeon Store recently debuted Badger Blades, a new conductive pleasure product for electro play and sensual play.

Badger Blades are made to be gripped in the hand, while using a conductive body cable on a violet wand (not included). Three conductive polymer blades extend from the handle, giving the user the appearance of having long claws. While intimidating and impressive looking, the blades are not sharp. Sensations with a violet wand include concentration at the three ends, or spreading the arcs lengthwise across the extending material.

Badger Blades are also great for sensual play, giving an edgy feel without the danger of something sharp. In the bedroom or dungeon, Badger Blades pair well with a blindfold and rope bondage or a cuff set. They also come in a cloth pouch for easy carrying.

“Badger Blades are made here in house as one of many violet wand toys in our collection,” explained Anne Bryne, Founder and Co-owner of The Dungeon Store. “Customers also love them for wax play. After wax has been applied and cooled, Badger Blades can be used to safely remove the wax as part of the play. That can be done without the electrical play of a violet wand. But using a violet wand with the Badger Blades and our Blacklight Wax, you’ll get quite a light show at play parties.”

The Dungeon Store is a woman-owned, intergenerational family business, priding themselves on over two decades of curating collections of fine BDSM and fetish toys with an eye towards community care and development.

“Of course Badger Blades could be incorporated into some superhero cosplay,” added Brittany Wilson, Sales and Marketing Director for The Dungeon Store. “As they’re not sharp and not metal, they’re a little friendlier for security at fandom shows.”

Retailers can contact Brittany Wilson at sales@thedungeonstore.com for order information and details. Consumers can find Badger Blades at the booth of The Dungeon Store during parties and conventions for the sexually adventurous, or online, along with their curated collection of floggers, paddles, bondage rope and violet wand accessories at https://thedungeonstore.com/collections/e-stim/products/badger-blades-violet-wand.

The Dungeon Store Receives Two 2025 Xbiz and Two AVN Award Nominations

World Wide Web — It has been a great year for The Dungeon Store as the woman owned and operated shop for BDSM products received two nominations for the 2025 Xbiz Awards and two nominations for the 2025 AVN Awards.

The Dungeon Store carries a curated collection of BDSM products for new and advanced players. The business is known for their violet wand accessories, many made in house in the U.S.A. The Dungeon Store also carries impact play toys, restraints, and rope for shibari, mostly hand crafted by professionals in the BDSM community.

AVN nominated The Dungeon Store for Best Pleasure Product Manufacturer – Small, and for Best Fetish Manufacturer.

The Shelob violet wand accessory scored an Xbiz nomination for the Best Fetish Product. The Shelob is a violet wand flogger that plugs directly into a violet wand, can be used as a light flogger, for sensation play, or used by hand along with a conductive cable.

The Lightning Laces Conductive Corset picked up an Xbiz nomination for Best Specialty Product. Lightning Laces are a set of body bling, laced together with conductive ribbon like a corset on the skin. They can be used decoratively on the back, chest, or other areas of the body, and sets can be mixed together. The bling and ribbon are conductive and make an impressive light show when used along with a violet wand.

“We are immensely pleased and grateful to the AVN and Xbiz teams for nominating our products,” said Anne Bryne, Founder and Co-owner of The Dungeon Store. “Many of our violet wand accessories are made in house, including The Shelob. These products are spark gapped for safety. We also have a three year warranty on our violet wands. We’re very proud our work and commitment to safety in electroplay products is getting recognized.”

New items in The Dungeon Store catalog this year include occult books, chainmail toys, vegan rubber floggers, conductive paracord floggers, blacklight reactive lingerie, and colorful resin paddles.

“Many kind thanks to Xbiz and AVN for acknowledging our commitment to violet wand toys and BDSM gear in general,” said Brittany Wilson, Sales and Marketing Director for The Dungeon Store. “We’re wrapping up 2024 with a clearance on E-Stim adapters, cords and accessories, and with a new assortment of fetish gear on the web site. There, you can find many one of a kind toys crafted by our respected friends in the BDSM community.”

The Dungeon Store will be celebrating their continued success on December 31 with booths at the Phuck Off 2024, Happy 2025 Play Party at Baltimore Playhouse and the All That Glitters New Years Eve Event by Secret Sinsations in Pennsylvania.

Contact Brittany Wilson at Sales@TheDungeonStore.com For wholesale and distribution inquiries.

Visit https://TheDungeonStore.com to brighten your dungeon and amp up your electroplay game in 2025.

Mistress Cyan’s Holiday Toy and Food Drive Party this Friday!

Los Angeles, CA – Friday, December 13th, 8:00 P.M., Mistress Cyan presents her annual Christmas “Slave Auction” toy and food drive for charity. The party will be at Sanctuary Studios, 13012 Athens Way, Los Angeles, 90061.

Cyan’s seductive celebration is a kinky take on the classic bachelor auction. Volunteers put themselves up for auction for the night. Those bringing in a new toy for children, canned food, or dry goods get play money to bid on the “slaves” for the evening. Winning bidders get to play with their human prizes for the night. Everything is negotiated, consensual and for fun.

These fundraisers have been Mistress Cyan’s ongoing tradition for over twenty years. Canned food and dry goods are encouraged. Blankets, gift cards and cash donations are also accepted. Donations go to The Metropolitan Community Church in North Hollywood, which then distributes the goods to shelters and the homeless for the holidays. Toys will be distributed to the local children’s hospital, fire stations, and charities such as The Laurel Foundation, as well as to others for those who may be homeless.

“This is all for a good cause and a lot of fun. We invite those in the adult industry to join us this year and contribute to those in need,” said Mistress Cyan. “I appreciate all the support that I have gotten with this over the years, please continue with that support and let’s make sure we help put some food on the table and toys under a tree of those who may not get it otherwise.”

Donations can also be made directly to The Metropolitan Community Church through https://mccuccinthevalley.com .

Admission for the party is $20 in advance, $30 at the door. Dress code for the night is fetish, leather, or classy casual. No cut offs or baseball caps please.

Go to https://sanctuarylax.com for more details about this event, additional parties and what Sanctuary Studios has to offer.

Procrastinator’s Kinkmas Sale from The Dungeon Store Starts December 6

World Wide Web — The annual Procrastinator’s Kinkmas Sale is back at The Dungeon Store, December 6 through 16, 2024.

The Dungeon Store is a curated collection of BDSM products for new and advanced players. The business is woman owned and operated, well known for their violet wand accessories, along with hand crafted floggers, paddles, bondage gear and books.

“This is our fourth year offering this sale as an alternative to the Black Friday marketing hype,” explained Anne Bryne, Founder and Co-owner of The Dungeon Store. “Rather than putting our work family and community through the stress of working Thanksgiving, Black Friday, and Cyber Monday, we’re offering 10 days to shop our collection for great deals.”

During the Procrastinator’s Kinkmas sale, The Dungeon Store makes available on their website many small-run, kinky toys that were only available when vending at conventions and fetish events during 2024. New products will be added to the “One of a Kind Emporium” section daily.

“Of course, we still have your favorites, like the Flameless Wax Play Kits, Lightning Laces, and Bedroom Bondage Kits,” noted Brittany Wilson, Brand Manager for The Dungeon Store. “But this is a time where we offer limited editions of unique BDSM gear, along with deals on kinky toys we stock specifically for events.”

In addition, more occult books, oracle cards and tarot decks will be for sale on the site. Plus there are great deals on blacklight-reactive lingerie.

“When you order between December 6th and the 16th, we’ll have your order out the door and on the way to you by the next day,” added Bryne. “For exclusive offers, special promo codes, and event schedules, sign up for our newsletter while at our online store.”

Visit https://TheDungeonStore.com to whip up the perfect gift for Masters, Mistresses, subbies and switches for the holidays.